Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Devastating Heartbreak- Part 2


       In a few days, our birth mom and baby will have been gone for 4 months. I have learned more in these past four months than I have during the entire adoption journey.

        In my heart, this little boy was meant to be my son. I miss him every day and imagine what my life would be like today if he was here. I fell in love with him the first time I held the sonogram. I cried listening to his heartbeat; he was strong! I prayed daily for his health and for the strength of his birth mom. I love his birth mom and I will carry them both for the rest of my life.

I imagine him in Heaven running down the streets of gold. In my dreams, I see my Pappaw holding him and bouncing him on his knee. More than anything, I hope as I walk into Heaven he is the second face I see. (I want to see Christ first.) As I am waiting for the day that I meet him face to face, I pray that God entrusts me with another baby to raise.

I have learned that I am strong. I can handle all that comes my way but I cannot do it by myself. I am very blessed to have amazing family, friends, and co-workers that have carried me through these past four months.

I also realized that if I want a miracle in my life, I cannot tell God how it is going to happen. When I first told God that I would go through another adoption, I gave Him a list of demands. Every one of my demands was met in this adoption journey. I know now, that if I am praying for a miracle, I cannot tell God how it will happen.

Every day, God reminds me of how amazing He is when I see Hannah’s sweet face. I know that there is a miracle on the way. I might have to wait many years, but until then, I will continue to walk hand in hand with Christ as I continue on this journey!
 
My Sweet Miracle

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